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Tired of the Same Old Date Night? Try These 29 Date Night Ideas for Valentine’s Day and Beyond!

It’s no secret coming up with cheap, creative, and fun date night ideas can be tough. This is probably your third (or thirteenth) blog post…

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It’s no secret coming up with cheap, creative, and fun date night ideas can be tough. This is probably your third (or thirteenth) blog post about affordable date night ideas at home.

Well, first, I’m happy you found me! Second, I hope these date night ideas are extremely helpful for you! 

I met my now-husband when we were 13! Although we didn’t get married until we were 24, it’s safe to say we’ve been on A LOT of dates. Now that we have two kids, finding time to date has been even more challenging. While there’s nothing wrong with Netflix and Chill, it’s still nice to have some fun activities to look forward to and spend quality time with your partner. Continuing to “date” your partner is the number one piece of advice we received before we got married. 

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This blog post is about 20 date night ideas for you and your partner.

1. Wine Tasting at Home

Wine tasting is so much fun! My favorite part about wine tasting with others is how different everyone’s reaction is to the different types of wine. Some like sweet, some like dry, some like bubbles, some taste chocolate or tobacco, others taste fruit or flowers. Plus, an evening filled with a bunch of different wines and cheese is always a good night, right?

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    2. Dinner and a movie

    Classic date night. And it’s classic for a reason! When my husband and I first started dating, dinner and a movie sounded so simple it was almost boring. Now, as a married couple with a toddler, finding uninterrupted time to sit down and have a nice meal and watch a movie is glorious! I know this idea isn’t the most creative, but I still wanted to include it because it is a simple favorite of mine.

    Here are some ideas to make your dinner and a movie a more unique date night ideas:

    • Make your movie area super cozy and phone-free.
    • Create themed drinks or cocktails to go with the movie!
    • Have a dress code, are you wearing loungewear and casual clothes or going comfy pj style? You can even wear movie-themed costumes/outfits!
    • Appetizers and snacks are a must. Make popcorn, grab candy, nachos, finger foods, or order takeout.

    If you’re going with the traditional popcorn movie snack, spice it up with this seasoning variety pack! It’s an awesome mix of sweet and savory and the containers are even magnetic!

    Delicious Popcorn Seasoning – Movie Snack:


    3. Dessert Bar

    Make a dessert bar! Gather up any and all toppings you can think of and a variety of different ice cream flavors and get creative! If you’re looking for dessert bar inspiration, check out some of these awesome images below. If you really want to spice things up, pair up your desserts with alcohol!

    Dessert and alcohol pairings can create an amazing harmony of flavors.

    Try some of these classic desert and alcohol pairings:

    • Chocolate Desserts with Red Wine, Port Wine, Brandy, or Stout Beer.
    • Fruit Desserts with Champagne, Prosecco, Moscato, Riesling, or Sweet White Wine
    • Cheesecake with Dessert Wines, Bourbon, or Cognac
    • Tiramisu with Coffee Liqueur, Espresso Martini, or Amaretto
    • Apple Pie with Crown Apple, Burbon, Sparkling Cider, or Chardonnay
    • Vanilla Ice Cream with Sherry, Bourbon, Irish Cream Liqueur
    • Key Lime Pie with Margarita, Mojito, Gin and Tonic, Tequila
    • Pecan Pie with Bourbon, Scotch Whisky, Amaretto, Dark Beer

    4. Indoor Concert

    My husband and I LOVE blasting music (maybe I should say “blasting”. We do have a toddler which serves as an effective form of volume control). Here is what we do:

    • Clear the living room of toys, end tables, and anything else that could get in our way while dancing.
    • Get dressed up. It’s a concert, people!
    • Pick the artist or genre of the night and use our Amazon Echo Dot.
    • Turn off the lights. Sometimes we even hang white Christmas lights to bring the concert vibe!
    • We dance and dance and sing and dance …it’s a blast! 

    Amazon Echo Dot for your indoor concert:


    5. Create Vision Boards

    This idea is for the hands-on couple looking to do an activity on their date. Vision boards are so inspiring and so much fun! They’re a great way for you to express your goals for the future and spark excellent conversation. 

    Here’s what you’ll need for your vision board for this date night ideas:

    • Posterboard – grab it at Target. You can even check your local thrift store!
    • Magazines – again, thrift store! They sell old magazines for pennies!
    • Scissors
    • Glue/Tape
    • Markers, Pens, and Pencils

    Before you start, take some time to reflect on your goals and intentions. What do you want to achieve in various areas of your life, such as career, relationships, health, and personal growth? Clarify your vision.

    Look through magazines, newspapers, and online sources for images, words, and phrases that resonate with your goals. Choose visuals that spark inspiration and align with your aspirations. For this step, Pinterest is my go-to!

    Finally, create! Share your creation with your partner. Talk about what you chose and why.


    6. Wine and Paint

    I am a terrible painter, but this is still one of my favorite date night ideas! There’s something about freehand drawing with a paintbrush and a canvas that is so relaxing and freeing. Again, this is a hands-on activity and allows for plenty of time to chat with your partner while getting your Picasso on. If free-hand painting isn’t your thing, here are some great templates you can purchase! Don’t forget the wine 🙂 

    Wine and Paint Canvas:


    7. Plant Party – DIY Terrarium

    For this date night idea create your own terrariums!

    Terrariums are low-maintenance indoor plants, and it’s so much fun to make. Terraniums can be small and compact so they’re suitable for small spaces and offices. You can your partner can express your creativity with this date night ideas which is low-cost, budget-friendly, and will be kept on display for months (hopefully years!) to come.

    Here is a terrarium kit to get you started:


    8. S’mores 

    I listed s’ more separately from the dessert bar, but making s’ more can hold down a date night idea completely on its own! You know the classic: graham cracker, marshmallow, chocolate. For this date night, switch it up! Add other fun chocolate candy like Reese’s, Twix, white chocolate. I’ve recently tried s’ mores with Oreo cookies instead of graham crackers. GAME CHANGER! Of course, s’ mores are traditionally done over the fire, but if you don’t have a fire pit you can use your stove, microwave, or a culinary torch. 

    Indoor Smores Kit:


    9. Puzzle Competition

    This is such an easy and fun idea. In my family, puzzles are a big deal. Puzzles bring out the best competition in us. Why? Whoever finishes putting together the puzzle the fastest wins a prize! We typically purchase a few $1 puzzles from the Dollar Tree and use that for the competition. It’s so much fun. The puzzles are usually 100 pieces or less so they’re easy to put together even if puzzles “aren’t your thing”. Choose your puzzle design, set the timer, and go!


    10. Backyard camping

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    I’ll admit, I’m more of a glamper than a camper, however, this date night is still one worth sharing. Don’t want to leave the house and travel to a campsite? Bring camping home with you! You may be missing the unique views and the road trip to your campsite, but it’s such a fun way to get outdoors and enjoy nature, even in your backyard.


    11. Spa Night

    Did someone say his and hers massages? Maybe facials are more your style? Whatever the case, a spa night is a perfect date idea for you and your partner. What’s even better? You’re killing two birds with one stone. You’re not only committing time to self-care, but you’re also spending devoted time with your partner. Here are some tips to plan the perfect, romantic spa night.

    • Give each other a massage
    • Give each other a Mani/Pedi
    • Soak your feet
    • Take a bath together
    • Give yourselves facials

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    12. Build a tent inside

    This is a fun one! Building tents as a kid was so much fun. Why not be a big kid with this date idea? Build a tent and enjoy some cozy snuggles with your partner. Add some white string lights for some mood lighting!

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    13. Charades

    Charades always bring out the laughs. If you’re looking for a hilarious date night idea, this one’s for you! 


    14. Scattergories

    I had to list this idea because Scattergories is selfishly one of my favorites. Here are the rules and categories to make your own scattergories at home. If DIY isn’t your thing, you can 


    15. Giant Games

    If you’re tired of traditional board game nights, this is an awesome date night idea. The bigger, the better, right?


    16. Cooking Competition

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    Does anyone else love watching Food Network Competitions? Here is an awesome idea for a Chopped Competition at home. Make it a date night activity by competing against each other with basket ingredients. Delicious dinner and creative date night – it’s a win-win.


    17. Hide and Seek in the Dark

    I’ve been playing this game all my life and it never gets old! Decide who is “it” (a classic rock paper scissors usually works), set the boundaries (is there anywhere you can’t go to hide?), decide where home base is, turn off the lights, and GO! 


    18. Scavenger Hunt

    I did this for my now husband and it was so much fun! I created a clue for different locations around the house and each location had a birthday gift. This is not only a creative way to give birthday gifts, but it’s also an awesome date idea. There are so many ways you can perform the scavenger hunt. Here are a few below.

    • Each partner creates a list of clues and leads the other partner to find a specific item
    • Each partner creates a list of items the other partner must find (or create!) in the house

    If you’re not in the mood to create your own, check out this date night adult scavenger hunt!


    19. Create a Pinterest Craft

    Head over to Pinterest and find a craft you and your partner can have fun doing! Here are a few:


    20. Karaoke

    Karaoke can be a great time! Personally, I’m an awful singer so Karaoke is slightly embarrassing for me and for that reason, highly entertaining for my husband. No need for a fancy karaoke game/machine turn on YouTube and make sure the subtitles are on! Use whatever you have handy for a mic (remote, spoon, etc.).


    21. DIY Sushi Night

    Turn your kitchen into a sushi bar! Use a bamboo rolling mat, reusable chopsticks, and sustainable seafood options. This kit has everything you need to get started.


    22. Read Together

    I love having a cozy reading night as a date night idea! You’ll want to go to the bookstore together and either each pick out a new book or pick out the same book. My husband and I love reading the same book together. It’s like having our own book club together. We get to talk about what happens in the book and have discussions about what we think will happen!

    23. Canvas Paint Switch

    Get creative and have some fun with a playful “paint switch” date night!

    Start by setting up your house with canvases, paints, and brushes. Start painting your own canvas and then every 5-10 minutes, you switch canvases with your partners and continue painting on each other’s work!

    By the end, you’ll have two unique, collaborative paintings and you’ll have so much fun!


    24. Play Hot Seat

    This is one of my favorite ideas for a date night at home because it is so much fun and can be fun and romantic. Take turns being in the “hot seat” by asking each other questions! These questions can be funny, sexy, truth or dare questions. You can buy them from somewhere like Target or you can pull up questions easily from Pinterest.


    25. Workout Together

    Turn fitness into a fun bonding activity! Set up a mini workout session at home with a mix of partner exercises, yoga flows, or even a dance workout video.

    Finish up the workout date by making a smoothie or a healthy snack together.

    If you’re looking for a sustainable workout clothes for your datenight, check out Girlfriend Collective!


    26. Zero-Waste Picnic

    Here are tips and tricks for the best way to plan a zero-waste picnic at home in a romantic and sustainable way to spend quality time with your partner!

    • Setup a cozy blanket or picnic-style table cloth in your living room, backyard, or balcony. Be sure to use cloth napkins and candles to add a romantic ambiance.
    • Choose finger foods and avoid single-use packaging for a waste-free food experience.
    • Serve food on real plates and bring the reusable utensils
    • Compost leftover food scraps or use reusable containers to store leftovers.

    27. DIY Cocktail Night

    Experiment with homemade syrups and organic spirits for a mixology session.


    28. DIY Candle Making

    Create soy candles scented with essential oils and poured into recycled jars.


    29. Escape Room Game

    Add even more fun to your date night at home with this fun escape room game! Download the files with everything you need to have a very fun and somewhat challenging time with your partner. This game takes about 30 minutes to an hour and is designed to play in the comfort of your home


    Do you plan on trying any of these date night ideas? Do you have any cheap, creative, or fun date night ideas you’d like to add to the list?

    Here is a list of 29 best date night ideas:

    1. Wine Tasting at Home
    2. Dinner and a movie
    3. Ice Cream Sundae
    4. Indoor Concert
    5. Create Vision Boards
    6. Wine and Paint
    7. Plant party
    8. S’ mores 
    9. Puzzle
    10. Backyard camping
    11. Spa Night
    12. Build a tent inside
    13. Charades
    14. Scattergories
    15. Giant Games
    16. Cooking competition
    17. Hide and Go Seek in the Dark
    18. Scavenger Hunt
    19. Create a Pinterest craft
    20. Karaoke
    21. DIY Sushi Night
    22. Read Together
    23. Pottery at Home
    24. Play “Hot Seat”
    25. Workout Together
    26. Zero-Waste Picnic
    27. DIY Coktail Night
    28. DIY Candle Making
    29. Escape Room

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    I hope you enjoyed all these date night ideas for you and your partner!

    Don’t forget about the importance of dates, even if you have kids! I love the idea of always dating your partner. Dating is the key to a long, happy, passionate marriage. If you’re not married, dating is imperative to finding your ideal life-long partner.


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    16 comments

    1. This was a much needed post!! I love all these ideas and sent them to my husband. We have two toddlers and maybe go in a date every other year 😬

      1. Yay! I’m so happy this resonated with you! Remembering to date your spouse when you have toddlers can be tough. Glad these ideas are helpful!

    2. Back yard camping sounds like a great date night! I will admit that my husband and I need to try some new things!

      1. I understand! My husband and I so easily fall into the habit of binge watching Netflix and Hulu. We have to remind ourselves to think outside the box and try new ideas!

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